Back from the beach

Well, I'm back from my 3 days of rest in Ocean Isle.  What a wonderful time!  And to top it off I got my rental car free.  No kidding!  What a wonderful Jesus we have!! 

Enterprise was supposed to pick me up but didn't.  Then the car wasn't full of gas or clean.  I was so unhappy and my hubbie was mad at the way the manager talked to me on the phone so we were already getting 1 day free.  But when I dropped off the car today the manager told me the rental was free!  After all the headache on Friday I was so thankful they did the right thing.  I certainly was NEVER going to rent from them again.  At least now I'll entertain the thought. 

Yes, I was blessed.  God is so good. 
So I had a great and restful time AND drove the rental car for free!


Yippee!!!

Now we pack for our family beach trip tomorrow and leave Thursday morning to see my folks.  We'll stop for a few days to see them and then all head to the coast.

Oh I love summer!
IN HIM….
julie


A Time for Rest…..

I am happily enjoying my belated Mother's Day weekend away by myself.  My wonderful husband graces me with a weekend away almost every Mother's Day.  He and I have both learned that a little rest goes a long way for mom!!  So once again I find myself in Ocean Isle, NC visiting my friend Sandy.  It was in this general area that I met another HSBer just a few months ago.  What a treat!

 

But back to the Resting…

It's taken me a few days to settle into “not being constantly needed”.  It's a strange feeling as a mom to get to a true place of rest.  After a Saturday filled with shopping, yummy food and pampering our toesies I think I'm finally at the place of rest.  My body has realized it's not constantly on call, my brain hasn't heard “MOMMY!!!!” for a day and a half now and I've actually slept through the night without some sweet little thing shaking me quietly saying, “mom….mom….are you awake?”.

 

What a wonderful feeling to be able to step back from my family and rest.  Jesus rested.  I know we are to follow his example.  But we all know as mom's it's a rare thing to have time to rest. 

 

I'm thankful to God and to my husband for allowing me the time away to recharge my batteries.  The best part is when I return home we have one day until our whole family leaves for the beach for our family vacation!  Yippee.  I may never return home and this year I might actually have a little bit of a tan!

 

Wishing you all rest….

julie


BOYS will be BOYS!!

I don't know but it doesn't look fair to me!!  Three against One!


Friends are a blessing

Yesterday we spent the evening at a friend's pool until the sun vanished from the sky.  We had a beautiful sunset, yummy hamburgers and wonderful fellowship.  Since this nameless friend has forbidden me and my camera near her house I'm sharing photos of my kids, not her.  Believe me, my friend will thank me.  Although very outgoing she IS a little camera shy and wishes NOT to be seen by the world at large.
(Who does she think reads these blogs anyway??)


Baby girl found herself a bowl of watermelon and
was happy as a lark.


My very favorite two year old in the whole entire
world!!!!!!!!!!


My favorite four year old and my friends kitty.


And two of my favorite guys in the whole world!!!

Today's my 7 year old's first day out of school so we're off to the pool again in a few minutes.  Tonight's it's Dominos!!!

By the way Michelle, I've decided a Diet Coke, chocolate and a nap is the cure for anything that ails ya!!!
Happy Happy Summer…
julie


Be still and know

We studied John Chapter 9 last
night in our Home Group.  The chapter is
all about Jesus healing the blind man who was blind from birth.  His disciples ask Him who sinned…did he sin
or did his parents?

I was struck by the assumption of
guilt.  How often do I assume the origin
of someone’s sin, pain, or ill behavior when all along God has allowed “the blindness”
for HIS glory to be seen?  And how often
do I need to assign blame?  Whose fault
is it?  Or how often do I feel the need
to figure it out?  Is that really my
job? 

I have a friend who believes that “figuring
things out” is one our greatest unrecognized and unconfessed sins.  She believes that when we try to figure
things out we are playing God.  I think
she’s onto something.  Isn’t our job to
still our hearts to hear God’s voice, not to intellectualize or analyze?  “Be still and know that I am God.”  Psalm 46:10

How often is the glory of God seen
in people our world considers “abnormal”? 
The child with Down syndrome or the “slow” child.  The mother in the nursing home.  The sick father-in-law.  I wonder how many children have been aborted
that we would have seen the glory of God through?  What have we missed?

How much do we miss because we are
seeing with our physical eyes instead of our spiritual eyes?  When I take my eyes off of Jesus and place
them on my circumstances my life either seems really wonderful or dreadfully
bleak.  The only consistency comes in
focusing on Christ.

“Lord, help me to see as the blind
man did, with spiritual eyes.”

IN HIM

Julie


Our weekend….pictures speak a thousand words.

We had a great weekend……..no need for words!  Hope yours was wonderful too.  IN HIM……julie

my strong and fearless hubbie!!


The long version…

I thought I'd blog about what happened in our lives yesterday when we found out we were staying in SC and with the company my hubbie works for.  Several months ago my hubbie interviewed for a new job in NC.  It was appealing in some ways but not a big monetary jump so we didn't feel the other benefits outweighed moving.  So…we declined their offer. 

In the meantime we knew that we had promised to move to Memphis TN this summer and my hubbie's boss still expected us to do so.  We really didn't feel led to move but were open to the fact that God may be moving us on.  We also realized just how important this community and our church had become in our lives.  The biggest factor was that we'd made a promise and knew God wanted us to make good on that promise.

After agreeing to move to Memphis while also letting his boss know that we desired to stay here we left it in God's hands.  Well, some days we did.  Other days we picked it back up and ran with it.  I always get into trouble when I make decisions on my own.  But there are times when I am tempted to make a decision just for decision's sake.

But we kept hearing from the Lord “Wait and trust me.”.
Easier said then done, right?

In the months that have passed I've learned a lot. 

  • One thing I've learned is to wait patiently on God.
  • Another is that He ALWAYS has my best interest at heart. 
  • And I don't need to look past today, for today is all He has given me. 
  • A man's word is his honor.
  • We can not operate in a vacuum.  We need friends to pray for us and to help us through the tough times.  I need a shoulder to cry on and friends who will lift me up when I can't even pray.
  • God IS FAITHFUL!

I breath air with a sigh of relief today.  The time is gone.  The decision has been made.  I am so thankful that we do not have to move.  I'm thankful for a loving heavenly father that will see us through anything.  And I'm thankful for friends who love us enough and care enough to pray.

IN HIM,
julie


Praise God!

Oh my!!! 
Finally blog about what's going on with us!  We haven't known for quite a while now if we would have to move with my husband's job or even if he'd have one if we decided not to move.  God has had us in “the waiting place” for months.  And it's been a roller coaster ride.  We found out today that we get to stay here and we get to stay with the company he presently works with.  YEA GOD. 

We've prayed for months not to move.  Our hearts are here with our community and our church and our friends.  Although open to knowing God may be ready to move us on our heart's desire has been to stay. 

And we get to!!!!
“Thank you dear Jesus for caring about every detail of our lives.  Thank you that we can present to you the desires of our heart and you understand.  WE love you so much and appreciate all the ways you protect us and our family.  I know there are ways we will never understand this side of heaven.  YOU truly are amazing
I love you.
Julie”

thanks to all of you who have prayed for us as we've struggled in the waiting place…….
you are a blessing!!


I'm trying the TAG….just because I love Gayle over at thewestiecrew

Gayle just got done with a cool tag so I'm gonna try it.

Favorite magazine?  I'm not a magazine fan.  But I guess TOS.  (hey, do i get a prize someone??)

What is your favorite tv show?  We loved this season of American Idol.  Otherwise TV?  Blah!

 
What's on your mouse pad?   Don't have one

 

Favorite smell?  I love Gayle's answer about babies after a bath but I think just to pick something different I'll go with fragrant yellow roses.  Yum!!!

 

 

Worst feeling in the world:  I have to agree with Amber and Gayle on this one, when something is wrong with my kids.

 

Things I do on the weekends:  Spend money I don't have at Walmart.  Eat calories I don't need at Liberty Sweets Icecream.

Favorite Soundtrack:  Anything soothing, calming, relaxing and loud enough to drown out the kiddos.

 

What is the first thing that you thought of when you woke up this morning?  It's 7:20 I must get up and make #1 son's lunch for school.  Ugh.

 

Do you get motion sickness?  Yup.  Not pleasant.

Ditto for me too….I get it badly

 

Roller Coasters, Exciting or Deadly?  Deadly, refer to the above question.

 

Pen or Pencil?  Pens, fine point.  I could buy a million and use everyone of them.  (a little feddish if i had the money to support it)

 

How many rings till you answer the phone?  You mean as I'm lunging for it after yelling “Get the phone guys!” a million times?  I dunno!!

 

Favorite Foods?  Chocolate.  Pizza.  Chocolate.  A really good salad.  Chocolate.  Tacos.  Chilli in the winter!!!

 

Do you get along with your parents?  Yes.

 

Have you ever been convicted of a crime?  Thankfully I should have been caught at a lot of things growing up but never was.

 

Chocolate or Vanilla?  Usually chocolate, but sometimes vanilla.

 

Croutons or Bacon bits?  Both.

 

Do you like to drive?  Yes, riding is boring.

 

Do you sleep with stuffed animals?  Lots of pillows though and my dog is my hubbie allows it.

 

If you could have any kind of pet, what would it be?  One that cooks, cleans, knows deep tissue massage therapy.  Yep, good pet.

 

Favorite alcoholic beverage?  I like a Margarita in the anytime when I go out to eat.

 

What is your zodiac sign?  I dunno.

 

Do you eat the stems of your broccoli?  Absolutely NOT.

 

If you could have any job you wanted, what would it be?  I'm be one of those girls on Deal or No Deal.  Ha…you though I was serious didin't you.  My ideal job would be little work, lots of money.  Know any of those???

 

If you could dye your hair any color, what would it be?  I'm fine with highlights here and there.

 

If you could have a tatoo, where would it be? No thank you on the pain level here.  I'm a wimp.  And they may look good at 18 but at 66?  Somehow they reinvent themselves. 

Have you ever been in love?  Yep, still am.

 

What is on the walls in your room?  In the bedroom.  There is a photo of me pregant and everyone signed the mat.  The are candles hanging on the walls and a picture and another picture and a small shelf with two icescaters on it.  It was a motherinlaw gift.  “Tis very tres chic.”

 

Write the first thing that comes to your mind: It's time to be sleeping, not blogging and my tummy's saying it's hungry.

Is your glass half empty or half full?  usually 1/2 empty, eck, i'm one of those.

 

What is your favorite Snapple? They have so many how does one pick?  maybe pink lemonade.

 

Are you righty, lefty or ambidextrous? righty!

 

Do you type with your fingers on the correct keys? After years of typing class I drive my Pecking hubbie nuts with the fingers flying across the keys.

 

If you could be any gardening tool what would it be?  The little gardening shovel.  I like to dig deep!

What is under your bed?  My husbands travel bags, my dog, sometimes my cat, my neck roll and anything Sparky has dragged under there (chewed up toys, a sock, some underwear)

What is your favorite number?  Don't really have one.

 

What is your favorite color?  Blue

 

What was your first car? A Montecarlo and a big old brown boat of a car (station wagon).  It must have held 30 people, no problem

 

What is your dream car?  You're gonna die.  A fully loaded custom van with leather seats.

Favorite sport to watch?  Basketball or Show Jumping.

Say one thing nice about the person who tagged you:  She seems to me to be the sweetest, kindest person you'd ever want as a friend.  And she's REAL!!

 

Now who do you tag?  Anyone who would like to share somethings about themselves.  WE love reading it!!

IN HIM

julie


Twos, Mice and Men

Let me start with the most important thing first. 
MEN…
I know, you think I'm going to say “Who can live with them?  Who can live without them?” 
RIGHT?

Well, no.  I want to brag on my guy.  He left here with half of his face feeling bad yesterday and had to go for an emergency root canal this afternoon at 4pm in CT.  After calling our dentist here they recommended he see a dentist there because they were not able to prescribe antibiotics in another state.  So after a trip to the dentist, a couple shots of novocain, they send him in a cab to the oral surgeon.  Wham, Bam, Thank you sir and he's had a root canal in something like 15 minutes flat.  Want a little unsolicited advice from my hubbie?  Pick an oral surgeon with a tee time.  

After his surgery he WALKS (you'd have to carry me) to the pharmacy for some pain killers the surgeon prescribed.  As he's walking a Corvette pulls up beside him and it's the oral surgeon.  “Hop in.  I'll give you a ride.”

Can you imagine?  I guess for all that pain and suffering he deserves a Corvette ride, huh??

Now, about the mouse.  My big fat tabby cat “Little Kitty” decided to knock over the mouse tank the day before yesterday.  I hear this big thud upstairs, mount the steps two at a time to find the little white mouse running for dear life through the mess of cage, pine shavings, water bottle and glass that once-upon-a-time was his home.  All the while “Little Kitty” is in that pounce position ready for some home cookin'.

Thankfully, after a scream or two and a dive for Junior (the mouse) all is well.

Ahhhh……………….

AND my sweet little baby girl turned two this past Sunday.  TWO!
Where does time go?

So, that's it for me today.  Time to clean up that cat puke under the dining room table.  Wonder if that's payback for the mouse rescue?

IN HIM (always)
julie


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