One day at a time.

Since moving to Florida God has been teaching me how to live one day at a time.  LITERALLY.  There are no old hymn notes playing, no music, just a complete stripping of my peace should I leave today.

I feel there are many decisions to be made that all hinge on where we will be living at the beginning of this coming school year.  There are two things of which I am certain after renting in a gated community for 1 year.

The first is:  I do not like gated communities and I want land.  Living where my kids can not run and play has been horrible.

Second:  I will pay for walls.  I do not like open floor plans.

We’ve probably all heard the song, “One Day at a Time, Sweet Jesus”.   I live that song.  Decisions I want to make I can not.  So I continually reel myself back into today waiting for what our pastor calls Explosions of Grace in my life.  Tiny glimpses of God reminding me that he’s got all the stuff that feels like cobwebs in my brain.

The two weeks were were in SC passed as if it were 3 days.  Friends, Food, Yard Work, Dr Appts all kept us busy as beavers.

Now I’m home to taxes (still not done), the last of the school year, and planning for next school year.

It’s a little funny that we live in Fla and vacation in SC now!!!  I pray God has great plans for the house we love in SC.  And I pray for His blessing here to be more than I could ever imagine.


A Motley Crew

Well, it’s been a while since I have the time to sit and write.  Forever, to be exact.

We just got back from a trip to SC where we spent time with friends and worked in our yard.  Our house there has not sold.  It’s nice to go and stay for several weeks.  However, it is also hard to feel as if we have one foot in one state and one in another.

While I was frantically packing to come back to Florida my lovely friend, Lisa, came to help me pack and our kids got to say their last goodbyes.

Because words escape me as of now I leave you with a hello and a picture of the gang.  Each expression is just a perfect representation of who they are!

Thanks for taking the time to snap pictures Lisa!!


How did you spend Good Friday?

To the King of King and the Lord of Lords…

Our Good Friday…unedited.

Wouldn’t be the beach without a little tag football….

Dad and #2 son making a plan

#1 son with friend making game plan…

a little brotherly competition…

a little chatting with the opposition…

and the fake out…

#3 son ate and then fed the birds in hopes of mom getting her “perfect” shot…

this one had to be close to perfect.  check out that color!

Happy Easter!


It’s that time of year…

Well Florida is getting warmer and warmer.  We’ve had several day of actual “beach” weather.  88 or above.

We ventured out to the beach this week as well as another trip to St. Augustine.  I love both places.  It was fun having company and also venturing out while learning.

We happened to be there at low tide and the tide just began to come in as we were leaving.  We found all sorts of treasures.  I have searched for the exact name of this particular starfish but with no luck.  It was purple with orange edges…just beautiful.

and we sported our do-rags…

I captured these two guys resting.  From all the dead sea life on the beach they were fat and happy…

The kids ran and played around.  I love the action in this shot…

Here’s the whole motley crew….

And one of my sweet friends with her son…

More of St. Augustine later…


Fred…the rather large cat.

Fred has recently decided that my office chair is his favorite to plop his big ole….well….self!

Unlike everything else that you lose when you become a wife, mother, and pet owner eventually they take your stinkin chair.

So with out further ado, I give you Fred.  Anyone want to guess his weight now???

Just so it’s all fair and you know what you are up against.  Here Fred is in all his glory in MY chair.

Here is his top story…

Here are the middle floors….take a good look.

And here is the bottom floor…

Look at those cougar sized feet!

So now you have the full view in a big office chair.  What ‘cha thinkin’?  Anyone guessing he’s topping the scales near 20.  You guess and I’ll wrangle him to weigh him.  You’ll have to click on the other links in this post to see his previous weight!  I’ll come up with some yummy surprise for the winner!  Pass it around.

Oh and on a couponing note I CVSed last Sunday and spent 16 and saved 75!!!!  Yippee

Deal??


I have a beef….

Well, maybe you can call it a chicken.

I’ve watched commercials and seen products in the grocery stores that advertise their products are made from CAGE FREE chickens.  Since beginning to eat healthier years ago I have started watching the subtle differences in the way companies market their products.  I WAS a Marketing major back in the day.  The days before marriage and kids and dogs and cats……..well, you get the picture.

So last night I am watching a mayonnaise commercial advertising they use CAGE FREE eggs.  That may sound good, right?  But just exactly what does CAGE FREE mean?  They live in a hotel?  They are not in a wire cage?  Do they get sunlight?  Are they kept in a barn with millions of other chickens who are fed genetically engineered corn?

Now FREE RANGE chickens ….. well, they are a different story if they are TRULY free range chickens.  The only way to be sure that you know you are getting one of those little guys who get to peck around in the barn yard eating all kinds of bugs and things that actually give us PROTEIN and soak up all kinds of sunshine which give us VITAMIN D is to know the producer of your chicken.  We buy locally from a co-op and I just refuse to buy any meat from a grocery store!  But those CAGE FREE birds…..sorry guys, that one is not working on this gal!

Give me a “pecking around the barnyard chicken” any day of the week.

Go an watch Food, Inc.

You’ll get the picture!

I found this interesting article on labeling as well.


Grace like rain…

Today is one of the days I needed grace like rain.

It was a hard day.  In fact, it was a hard week.  As I continue to struggle with my struggling learner I question all that is right and normal.  I watch my family struggle with the one God has given us to love, teach and raise.  I’m searching for answers because I have none.  I asked God if I could have this child healed for my birthday. ” Can you do that for me God?  I promise I will never ask for another thing.”

Don’t you love the bargaining stage?  It’s when I know something needs to shift.  Whether it be my focus or my routine or my faith or……

Something must change.  These are the days I realize remember the definition of insanity as it was once told to me….”It’s doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

“Lord, am I insane?”

It is during times like these I question myself as the devil begins to throw his darts at me.  I think someone else certainly could do a better job of this than me.  Anyone.  Even the cat.

But I cling to the hope of the next moment, the next day, the next life where there will be no more tears or struggles.

The chocolate?  I hide it in the closet so I can eat it alone.  Something just for me.  One little slice of life that is predictable.  I eat and I gain a few ounces.  Predictable.  I think I like that word right now.  It’s a comfortable word.

Trusting Him…


Facebook

I’m approaching a touchy subject here…Facebook.

My husband and I have been convicted not to use Facebook.  It’s a decision many of my friends have not liked but it’s our conviction and a way of protecting our family.  I found a great article which I found to be very balanced about Facebook and infidelity.  Read it for yourself, but it states that Facebook is just like the phone or the internet.  If you go looking for trouble you often find it.  Facebook can lend towards infidelity when those who use it are more interested in the past than in the future.  It also states that people sin, not Facebook or the computer or the phone.  These avenues, I believe, make our desire to stray available at our fingertips.  But, like I also stated, I believe where there is a will there is a way.  Safeguards are important and necessary as each is led.

I liked the article.  We will still choose not to use Facebook as an example to our kids of our choice to go against society and follow God’s prompting in our lives but I feel more balanced now in how I look at one of the social tools of our age.

Most people feel Facebook rocks.  What about you?


He gets his fashion from his mom…

This is my child who wore underwear on his head and socks on his hands when he was three years old.

Fast forward almost eight years and here we are….

Think I should be worried?


A White Christmas

As many in the south know God gave us the wonderful gift of snow this year. My Floridian children were amazed and shocked at the 6 inches that were dumped in the Piedmont of NC.

They played until their toes were frozen, came in to thaw out and then went sledding.

Baby girl tried her hardest to make the snowman’s head.

While Child #3 ate everything in sight.

And Child #4 made good use of his XXL size gloves (the only ones left in the store)

They had a blast as mom (me) with a nasty two week long cold watched from the window.


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