Christmas and Relationship

This year I think Christmas is going to be different for a lot of people.  Just like us.
It took a good friend to show me that the other day.

I know the economy is tough everywhere.  And I’m guessing a lot of folks are bypassing buying presents for fellowship.

And I’m thinking that sounds kinda nice.
Fellowship.

Here’s Webster’s version:

1 : companionship, company
2 a : community of interest, activity, feeling, or experience b : the state of being a fellow or associate
3 : a company of equals or friends : association
4 : the quality or state of being comradely
5 obsolete : membership, partnership

I think we could all use some more fellowship (company, community, association, partnership) don’t you?

Christmas really isn’t about the presents.

And I tell myself that every year but this year I think God is helping us all to understand it’s about relationship, not gifts.  And I find myself relieved, in a way, that we can’t buy, buy, buy for Christmas.  Because it makes me stop and think.  What really is important to me at Christmas?

Is it that I want to have enough gifts under the tree for my kids?

Or is it teaching them about love, and fellowship, and togetherness?

What do I really want my kids to learn?

I’m sure, in my heart, that it’s about relationship.

Now, if I can only get my brain to follow my heart I’ll be in good shape.

IN HIM ALWAYS…



Comments

  1. tn3jcarter says:

    Some years we've been able to do more than others and you know what, the kids don't remember those as the "good years". They always remember Christmas by something random. That's the year it snowed… or that's the year we had to get up so early… or now that they're older and LOVE to eat… that's the year we had such and such.

    And speaking of random… we were talking about how we cured Jake's pink eye when he was a little fella and you all lived next door. I think Jake is scarred for life. Ha!

  2. SandyDaniels says:

    Well put….AMEN

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